Really good resources!

As for resources in general, I also recommend a few places for more research or academic resources:
www.asexualexplorations.com - has an excellent bibliography of academic papers that have been published about asexuality
asexystuff.blogspot.com/ (the asexual explorations blog) - has some thorough and in-depth discussion about things like asexuality in academia, the relationship of asexuality to HSDD, etc.
asexualitystudies.org/ - now defunct, unfortunately, but still has some good articles about researching asexuality and some good resources archived.

Also, I recommend highly recommend the asexualagenda.wordpress.com blog, which in addition to interesting articles also has an excellent series of weekly linkspams which are very helpful for keeping track of the current goings on of the asexual blogging community.

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On a side note, out of curiosity - I know of some of the reasons people don't like AVEN's forums, but I don't think I've heard that it's "terribly inconsistent with its definitions of various terms" before - Would you mind explaining what you mean? (I know I may be "the enemy" but we actually do care about trying to improve AVEN to be a better resource, so if you have any complaints I'd like to know what they are so we can improve them).

Also, do you ask that members also refrain from posting links to AVEN? There's a couple archival pages on the AVENwiki that are good for finding things like media articles or alternate asexual communities but I'd only post them if it's ok with the admins here.