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Post by francie on Apr 8, 2014 22:28:36 GMT
When I was in 8th grade and I realized that I had a thing for guys n' dolls, I began identifying as bisexual. It makes sense I naturally did that, as I had never heard any other term other than LGBT and Ally. And clearly I wasn't straight. I told my sister, and though she would hint at it to my mother because she thought it was funny, but she never flat out said it. A while ago, I came out to her as asexual, and it was a different story. She has shared it with my mom quite a few times, and my mom doesn't believe it's a real thing. However, it got me thinking: because asexuality is a lesser known sexual attraction, do people think that it's not as a big deal as being LGBT and therefore it's not something that is a secret? (wow sorry for the horrible wording of this)
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Post by rebecca on Apr 25, 2014 22:55:17 GMT
Yeah I think so, because at camp I said to a few people that like I didn't feel sexual attraction and had no interest in sex and later actually came out as asexual and they didn't view the former statements as like coming out or relating to an orientation?
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Post by An Ace Aro. on Feb 1, 2016 2:51:55 GMT
Yeah I think so, because at camp I said to a few people that like I didn't feel sexual attraction and had no interest in sex and later actually came out as asexual and they didn't view the former statements as like coming out or relating to an orientation? I agree, in fact, I didn't even see it as 'coming out'. I didn't even think that it was considered 'not straight' or part of the LGBTQ+ community. I just thought people were either asexual or not, and that was that. I openly discussed it with a lot of friends. It was only after I started researching more online, and found that it was seen as some really scary thing, something that people won't believe and something that wasn't really common (like I thought it was), that I started getting nervous about who I 'came out' to. It's almost unfortunate that it's viewed in such a scary light!
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Post by Nah. on Jan 1, 2019 7:36:41 GMT
Yeah, My parents had a big sit down talk about ‘you might be ace’. Like yea? I never dated so its not like this changes anything- but they treated it as though calling me an ‘ace’ now will change who i am. (I also don’t consider myself either gender, So when gender identity comes up- its a ‘lovely’ conversation...) Wish it wasn’t such a big ol thing. I’m still me-
(And i did by myself come up with that conclusion a year earlier than they did- But i thought it was irrelevant to inform them. Like i’ve always been romance repulsed, and litterally diched sex ed. Never dated- And its a surprise im ace? I love my cat more than that ‘hot stranger’.)
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